Friday, May 2, 2014

Caregiving Part 2 Ministering to Adults who Caregive Parents

Caring for your parents or an adult special needs child is tough. We do it because we love them, because they are "family" and because we sometimes feel obligated, to be honest. Most of the time, we do it out of love.  With that, we cannot do this alone.  We need support. In my experience, my mother took care of her sister in law who had Alzheimer's and the stress ended up killing my mother. See, my mom was a nurse and thought she could do this on her own. It is different when someone is with you 24 hours a day and there is no break.  I wish my mom would have utilized her children and our friends. She might be alive today.

Remember, it is not always the right thing to have your parents or older special needs child at home but it is required in the Bible that we be concerned for their well-being.

1 Timothy 5:8 "But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever".

Here are some resources to remember:

THOUGHTS
http://www.aarp.org/home-family/caregiving/info-09-2013/my-life-as-a-caregiver.html


IDEAS:
https://www.ministrymatters.com/all/article/entry/109/caring-for-the-caregivers-ministering-to-the-sandwich-generationhttps://www.ministrymatters.com/all/article/entry/109/caring-for-the-caregivers-ministering-to-the-sandwich-generation

CAREGIVING BOOKLETS(downloadable)
 http://www.caregiverslibrary.org/featured/caregivers-handbook.aspx

LOCAL MONTGOMERY RESOURCES for help !

First Baptist Church Caring Center-support groups for Caregivers of adults
Contact: Jane Ferguson at 334-541-5141

First Methodist Church, Daphne Johnson, 
Please call for enrollment. 334-834-8990; Fax: 334-834-4333

Frazer UMC, See link below
Older Adults Ministry

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MBA Ministry Directors

Adoption and Foster Care Ministry

Lisa Rose

334-271-6794

lrose@mgbaptists.org


Conversational English School

Director, Susan West

334-312-7057

montgomeryceschool@yahoo.com

Family Resource and Counseling Ministry

Director, Dr. Kline Johnson

334-271-6241

counseling@mgmbaptist.org

Forest Park Ministry Center

Director, Donna McCollough

334-529-5726

forestparkministry@gmail.com

www.forestparkministry.blogspot.com

Montgomery Mixtec Ministry

Lisa Rose

334-27106794

lrose@mgmbaptists.org


Samaritan Inn Ministries

Director, Debbie Jones

334-462-7108

samaritaninn14@gmail.com

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Ten Ways You Can Serve Greater Montgomery

1. Connect with one of the 6 Cooperative Ministries listed on this blog.

2. Do a neighborhood survey and find out what your community wants and needs.

3. Tithe 1/10 of your garden and give to a family in need.

4. Read to a child at one of the public schools in your area. The administration would love to have you serve.


5. Start an Fellowship of Christian Athletes club at a local jr high or high school.

6. Take gift bags to new neighbors around your home or church with information about the church/community.

7. Adopt a school and be a prayer partner with them.


8. Call Alabama Post/Pre Adoption Connections(APAC-334-409-9477) in Montgomery and find out how you can support adoptive families.

9. Offer to host an ESL or Conversational English class in your church. Someone can come and train your church to teach ESL too.

10. Gather in good condition clothing and take to the centers. Ask Forest Park about their "Good Samaritan Clothing Ministry".